It is true which we all know
but most of the times we do not accept it because the mundane does take over
the romance that too in the long term relationship.
Things which will help you
in reviving the relationship and makes your partner feel special again
1. First thing you can do is
switch off from the rest of the world and try to spend the whole day in bed. Do
not use phones and Internet. Talk to your partner and share your feelings and
thoughts which you were unable to say for some time. It will really help you
a-lot and will make your partner feel that she or he has the same space in your
heart as it was before.
2. Feeling bored at work
then do not think of anything else and call your partner and tell him or her
that you are missing them. If possible meet them by taking a leave from your
boss maybe by just telling him any reason that there is a personal emergency at
home or something else to take a day off. Just remember how you used to bunk
your college or school classes.
3. Something is cooking? Cook something special for
your partner it will definitely lift up the mood and if possible try your hands
on something exotic for which you can also take help from your partner it will
be fun to cook together and it would be great if it is a fancy meal. You can
also let others know later that what you cooked for your partner.
4. Take a short break and go
somewhere out of home or any place which your partner likes but try to go alone
and do not take other people with you. Check out the new restaurant or any new
pub, movie, concert, match, nice place, long drive.
5. Write a letter; It is been a long time that
you have not wrote on paper or any letter to your loved one the its time to
write a lovely letter and share your feelings in that with your partner.
Anyways it is a dying art and now it is a digital age but we cannot deny that
when we read something on a paper written by someone then it makes an impact of
personal feeling and you can easily write down how you feel about your partner
and how lucky you feel to have them in your life. It will really be an exciting
moment for your partner when she will read the handwritten thoughts of yours.
It does not matter whether you are a great writer or not but the only thing
which matters is that you took out sometime and put your efforts in writing
something special for the partner.
6. Talk to your partner; Take out some time to talk
with your partner and have a heart to heart conversation with them and let them
know where they are headed in your life, what they want to do and what their
dreams are. Sometimes we are so busy that we neglect the most important person
in our life. Open up with your partner and also let them share their feelings
with you no matter what pressure we are facing our lives due to financial
stress or any other personal traumas. Try to become their motivation and if
needed try to give a push which they need, help them achieve what they want to
do and realize their dreams all it takes is one good conversation. Be the supporting pillar for them!
